How do you become a GILF? Just try online dating. We game grannies are more alluring greater than I ever expected. So far, I’ve been overwhelmed by the response to my online dating profiles. My friend Robyn warned me to prepare myself to be hit on by every breathing male online. I wasn’t prepared for this.
So many members!
I never imagined experiencing the sight of so many penises! Penises of every size, shape and color. And, not one photo solicited. Don’t get me wrong, I love the aesthetics of a beautifully formed male member. But I prefer it to be at my discretion and solicitation.
Additionally, interest came from every age. While I appreciate and find individual adult men and women of all ages attractive, I do have limits. In theory, I would prefer an intimate partner to be younger. But, I not sure I could be with someone younger than my sons (early 40s). Yet, thus far many of quite a number of my online suitors are barely of legal drinking age!
Establishing boundaries
Immediately, I enabled filters to screen out members who don’t met my desired traits. Before that new messages were coming in faster than I could scan the greetings. Next, I chose to hide my online status. I can’t recommend that too much. Before I began hiding, I was instantly and relentlessly bombarded by chat requests upon logging in.
Now, with filters in place, the pace of contacts is more manageable. Unfortunately, most suitors still fall into the lech, creep, cretin or weirdo categories. I resolve to be careful and take slow.
However, I have already had some nice contacts in chat and messaging. Several men have peaked my interest and a couple have even genuinely aroused me. Surprisingly, I’ve also been contacted by a few lovely young women who have helped show me the ropes. I can’t thank these ladies enough for saving me from drowning.
A surprising appeal
Who knew a woman my age would be so popular, especially with younger men? Not me. I’m not sure I get it, but I’m not complaining either. It’s mystifying, a little concerning, but also flattering.
Obviously I know about the whole MILF, cougars and cubs dynamic and the appeal of the older, more experienced woman. But I was unaware that it extended to women of my age — so called GILFs. That young men, some as young as 18-20, can express earnest desire for women old enough to be their grandmother is frankly fascinating.
So, what is it that attracts these younger men to much older women with imperfect bodies and wrinkles? Thankfully, “mommy issues” and gerontophilia don’t seem prevalent.
It seems that emotionally maturity and self-knowledge are two of the main factors of men’s attraction to older women. In fact, studies have shown that more than half of men are attracted to older women. And, the majority of those are open to dating a significantly older woman.
Additionally, some men apparently appreciate fuller, softer figures of a mature woman. “Curves made for lovin’” as Robyn puts it. Plus, with little to no risk of accidental pregnancy many men find sex can be more spontaneous and relaxed.
For my part, I’m choosing to embrace the attention brought by my new status as a GILF. I’ll try letting go of my hang-ups and being open as possible to the unconventional. Let the adventure begin!
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